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Unfortunately, the vast majority of singles I’ve worked with have clear racial preferences and biases when it comes to dating.Now that I’m four years into professional matchmaking, I’ve seen clear patterns emerge when it comes to race and attraction. Women of every racial background seem to strongly prefer dating you.

Being ‘into Asian chicks’ is a preference many guys don’t seem to have a problem expressing, with some even wearing it as a badge of pride.

It’s a trend that has become so widespread it’s got its own slang term: ‘Yellow fever’.

So, they become idealized due to being considered very sexual but also very feminine. with how certain people talk about former First Lady Michelle Obama.”In a recent feature article in the Walrus, lawyer Hadiya Roderique detailed her challenges dating as a woman of colour.

Alternatively, black women are viewed as hypersexual because of things like the legacy of chattel slavery, which also suggested that black women are more masculine and animalistic than other women. When Hadiya photoshopped her dating profile photos so that she appeared to be a white woman, her profile’s popularity skyrocketed.“When you combine demographics, the fact that users disproportionately message others of the same race, fetishism, sexualization of blackness, racism and anti-blackness, it adds up to — to put it mildly — a ‘harder time’ in those spaces,” Roderique tells me.

Asian women have historically been deemed more sexual but also are viewed as being more demure and feminine.

Sexual narratives about Asian women suggest that they will not challenge a man’s masculinity the way that other women of colour might.

Systemic racism continues to oppress and “other” people of colour and interracial romantic relationships were taboo — even illegal — until shamefully recently in our history.

So are you racist if you aren’t open to dating everyone?

“The experience on other sites, especially those that cater to people of colour, may be different, but even people of colour and black people are not immune from anti-blackness. And we’re going to have to work hard at being inclusive and open-minded in dating and in every other aspect of life if we’re set on making any progress at all.

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