Confidence dating relationships

Take note of any areas in your life where you’re really struggling to feel like this.

But while most of us in the coupled-up camp are aware of this, we don't necessarily think we need to work on our confidence when going on a 'date' with our guys we're totally comfortable with. Not until I had a coaching session with dating guru (and head & shoulders Date Night Confidence Coach) Matthew Hussey who advised me that by putting 10% more planning into a special night with my fella (or fiancé as I should call him if that didn't feel so cringey), I – we – could experience each other in a new way that was special, memorable, and sexy. He gave me these eight tips that act like triggers to boost my dating confidence: Take care of you first, feelings follow actions.

"Properly prepare before to get into a good state for the date.

At the same time, people with bucket-loads of confidence are often considered the most attractive and sexiest people.

So with this in mind, I’m sharing my 9 steps for getting your dating confidence back. You can either let those bad dating experiences go on to define your dating journey or you can shrug them off, put them behind you and move on with a spring in your step and a positive attitude (read on to find out how you can do that). Why would they like you over all the other gorgeous people out there?

The only way to get better and more confident on dates is to just go out on dates. As you go on more dates, you’ll find you start to take it in your stride, you’ll become an old-hand at it. Saskia Nelson is the talent behind the award-winning dating photography business Saturday Night’s Alright.

You can find more of her dating advice on her blog or by visiting one of her dating workshops that focus on helping people improve their dating profiles.Spend 10 minutes writing down all the things that make you uniquely, wonderfully you.Focus on the things you’re proud of and happy with, the things that you want to celebrate about being you.It amounts to the same thing as far as your date is concerned.They will see the you that you’re projecting so you might as well make sure you’re projecting the best version of you, whether it’s real or not.I recall exactly how I felt that, how I acted, what I did and then I hold on to those thoughts and feelings and head out to face the world with renewed sass.

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