Dating a quiet shy girl

In high school, I would often pick out a girl who seemed to be very introverted and try to get to know her better.Like other guys, I assumed that shy girls were perfect to pursue and date.So, later on in the relationship, she might talk your ear off!

Consequently, many guys expect introverted women to be easy to date, then find out the hard truth: shy girls aren’t desperate losers dying to date them.

In fact, winning over shy girls can be more difficult.

I haven’t been in many long-term relationships in my life, mainly because it’s hard for me to let my guard down and feel super comfortable with someone. Okay, so it might not be great to depend on your S.

Also, I’m attracted to outgoing people, and a lot of them don’t understand how to deal with shy girls.

You spend a lot of time convincing your boyfriend/girlfriend that you don’t hate his/her friends, you’re just awkward. You feel weird and nervous about PDA, or the opposite, fighting in public. You do everything you can to avoid doing something gross in front of your partner.

It takes you a REALLY long time to get comfortable with your partner…

Many of us have to muddle our way through the ordeal of dates with overwhelming people that don’t give us time to open up, until we finally, *sigh*, just give up on love. A recent study showed that watching Netflix with bae is actually good for your relationship. “When you like the same stories, shows and characters, you have a lot to talk about!

The study concluded that when you watch TV and movies or read books, you think about what's going on in the story and form opinions, which allows you to have a great conversation (or maybe argument! It feels like an immediate connection,” says Nathalie, a senior at SUNY Old Westbury, “Plus if it's something both you and your crush love, the conversation could go on forever!

So, here is how to date shy girls While guys are expected to man up and lead the conversation with all girls, it becomes even more essential (and difficult) with shyer ones.

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