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It’s ultimately heartbreaking, but an important record of trans living in a particular time and place.
Like In a Year of 13 Moons, this is a love story involving someone moving between male and female, but Dil is far less passive, becoming caught up in a love triangle with the IRA member who has killed her previous partner (Forest Whitaker) and emerging with the most power.
Alongside Sally Potter’s adaptation of Orlando, released in the same year, The Crying Game was one of several mainstream films to rethink the old stereotypes of trans people, encouraging its audience to empathise with Dil without asking only for sympathy.
Although German sexologist Magnus Hirschfeld popularised the word ‘transvestite’ and co-wrote the first explicitly gay film, Different from the Others (1919), before supervising the first sex reassignment operations, there is little which might be called transgender cinema before the 1960s, disregarding cross-dressing farces such as I Was a Male War Bride (1949) or Billy Wilder’s Some Like It Hot (1959).
Although many of the first transsexual and openly transgender-identified people were trans men, the cinema, like newspapers and television, tended to focus on trans women, perhaps because the idea that people might voluntarily relinquish their male privilege mystified the men who controlled the western media.
It opens this list because it features the Factory’s three trans ‘superstars’ – Candy Darling, Holly Woodlawn and Jackie Curtis – as the leaders of P. Curtis refused to be involved unless Warhol was behind the camera, but Darling in particular shines as their self-appointed, self-interested leader, reproached for her impure motives at the film’s end.
Twenty-five years later, Darling was portrayed sensitively by Stephen Dorff in Mary Harron’s biopic of Solanas, I Shot Andy Warhol (1996), which is an excellent companion piece to Women in Revolt and Warhol’s earlier films.Rainer Werner Fassbinder’s works were often bleak and few more relentlessly so than In a Year of 13 Moons, conceived as a ‘hate letter’ to Frankfurt and written as the director tried to process his grief and guilt over the death of his former lover, Armin Meier, who killed himself shortly after their relationship ended in 1978.This film follows Elvira, formerly Erwin, who went to Casablanca for sex reassignment surgery after the man she loved, Anton Saitz, said “I’d love you if you were a woman.” He rejects Elvira, as does everyone she ever cared for: it starts with Elvira being beaten by strangers and then humiliated by a male ex, and becomes progressively more harrowing until its brutal termination.Their stories are often sad – Venus Xtravaganza was murdered during filming, and several others died young – but Paris Is Burning continues to excite and inspire. On its release in 1992, The Crying Game’s promoters fiercely protected its famous ‘twist’ – which turned out to be the revelation of the genitalia of its leading lady, Dil, played by Jaye Davidson.The audience learned at the same time as Dil’s lover Fergus (Stephen Rea) that she had been born male, her naked body causing him to vomit, before their relationship evolves further.Starring Terence Stamp, Hugo Weaving and Guy Pearce as a transsexual woman, a transvestite and a drag queen who travel across the outback to resurrect their old cabaret act on the other side of Australia, The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert was one of the most significant trans-themed films of the 1990s.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating