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For decades I tried to prove my worth is more than my weight to no avail – so I literally had to move overseas to be seen.
We’re the ‘before’ on the Biggest Loser, the mum, the funny fat friend, the relatable mate but never the desired.
The fact that Australia doesn’t have a dating culture doesn’t help either.
It was a personal priority to make sure I included up-to-date full length photos so when I showed up in person my date actually got what they’d seen online. My authenticity wasn’t always reciprocated but I could sleep well at night back at Melrose Place.
I also did things to bust this big booty out of my comfort zone.
I had more dates in a month in the US than I would in a decade in Australia. As a fat girl I never had dates while living in Australia – but as soon as I moved to Los Angeles everything changed. Guys literally chased me out of bars just to speak to me (one of those encounters even turned into a three year relationship.) I was single, ready to flamingle and life in Hollywood was amazing and everything you’d imagine. Which is why I packed up, sold everything, gave up my radio hosting job and moved to Los Angeles with nothing but a suitcase.
My plus size blog Big Curvy Love was kicking along, I was working in podcasting, rocking fabulous fashion and for once in my life finally felt like a legit part of the deep end of the dating pool. I was exactly the same person; same personality, same looks, and same weight.Sure, one of his 15 points is "some men think fat women are beautiful" but the other 14 are dedicated to tired stereotypes basically boiling down to Fattie Mc Fatterson is super into food and will do anything to please a man because she's desperate. "Your date is tough." Hogue says fat ladies are rough 'n tough because they have to take care of themselves because dudes only want to protect skinny chicks.Well, I'd say he better be pretty tough, if only to survive all the punches to the gut he gets when he says loudly that he's only into "fit girls who take care of themselves." 14.(And also fat girls don't like salads.) But hey, what's good for the goose is good for the gander, right? But it is true," he writes, proving that he clearly does not get it and it does more than "sound" bad.Oh except most guys don't worry about calories anyhow because society doesn't fat shame men on nearly the same level it does women. "It is good for their confidence." Hogue wrote this tripe: "A lot of guys are just hanging with plus-sized women because they don’t think they can do better and are slumming, and just waiting for the time to be right so they can make their move [on skinnier, hotter women]." 11. Oh yes you have because it's the oldest stereotype in the book! "They tend to be eager to please." Fat women don't have a lot offers, see, so they'll do anything you want them to because they're desperate, according to Hogue. But hey, by that logic fat men should also be eager to please! Have you ever read something so bad, so hideously offensive, so inappropriate that you almost want to give it a slow clap just for sheer chutzpah?Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating