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SPOILER ALERT: This is satire for any person who doesn’t grasp the idea of a woman making a joke. If they do not reply to my sweet little “Hey good-lookin’. ” I have twenty brilliant, crafty, exquisitely petty and often hilarious tricks to text-bait the boy of fuck. If a fuckboy cares about anything, it’s his career.

Have you ever texted a selfish, inconsiderate, lazy, no soul, no conscience, no bed frame owning fuckboy you were dating but also not dating and he never responded? Any time your message goes unreplied, use one of these babies and I promise a rapid retort: Get a boyfriend. What is happening and why are you always in his house now? If you suddenly become valuable to him professionally, he will begin interacting with you regularly, because that isn’t weak little romance, it’s “networking,” and they’re never “too busy” for “networking.” Say that you have a job for him.

The fuckboy will come running to mansplain that he doesn’t have privilege and you’re simply being dramatic and you don’t know what sexism is and he ALSO SUFFERS. He will begin the process of reeling you back in, only to repeat his cycle of shittiness. He’ll begin pursuing you as he did in the beginning. Chat with every single one of his friends and pretend the fuckboy does not exist. He knows this is not actually possible, which is why he’s doing it.

The fuckboy’s greetings will roll in approximately two weeks later. The vagueness will infuriate the paranoid fuckboy and the investigation will begin via text. The texts will come flowing in with witty banter and compliments galore. Now that you are truly incapable of meeting with him ‘cause you’re thousands of miles away, he’s super into it. The fuckboy has a sixth sense for your being happy without him.

A friends with benefits knows when your birthday is, what you like on your pizza, and that you have two sisters.

A hookup buddy only knows your favourite position, and maybe your preferred flavour of lube.

Or he responded two weeks post-text, which is useless ‘cause your text was urgent? If you’re reading these words, current fuckboy, pick up your phone, open up your keyboard, and continue to walk into the ocean. Nothing grabs the attention of a fuckboy more than you being fulfilled in a serious relationship with a good person. They may even be the only one of fuckboy’s friends you’ve spoken to. Get them to invite you to the apartment for a movie night. Again, a fuckboy exists to build his resume and feel no emotion. Make physical contact with any other man in his presence.

Or he only partially responded and avoided the part of your message where you said you have developed feelings for him against your will since you consider him to be a skinny-jeaned, buttoned-down bearded monster? As soon as those Instagram photos start popping up with captions like “Date night with the BF,” the fuckboy entitlement will triple. Thus, a single non-kissing work opportunity will intrigue him more than the potential for true love. Invent a person, use an obscure celebrity’s name, or describe this individual vaguely. The fuckboy may not be responding to your suggestion of getting drinks on Friday night, but if you switch drinks to box seats at a Blue Jays game? And while you’re at this show/party/event treating the fuckboy like he is the invisible man, sit beside another handsome gent and stroke his muscular arm occasionally.

A friends with benefits might actually have the potential to turn into more if the timing is right, but a hookup buddy will never be more than someone you have sex with from time to time, and that’s how you want it to stay.

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